How to Give a BlowJob - Deepthroating Tips


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"The number one request guys have when it comes to blowjobs can be summed up in three words deep throat action"

The number one request guys have when it comes to blowjobs can be summed up in three words: deep throat action. They just can't get enough of their dick hitting the back of your throat- profound penetration couched in throat muscles contracting, and taut lips running the length of their shaft. It's all they can do not to orgasm right there on the spot.

The first thing you need to know about deepthroating is: it's crucial you breathe through your nose. Without adopting this habit, you run the risk of cutting off your oxygen supply, unintentionally inducing faintness, dizziness, or even an inimitable feeling of panic.

Secondly, it's very important to relax. In fact, the more you relax, the more flexible your throat muscles become, and the more comfortable it'll feel for you as he enters more and more deeply into your mouth.

One thing you can gauge ahead of time to make the whole process easier for yourself is the curvature of his cock. If it curves upwards, you may want to try deepthroating him in a 69 position, reducing the effort necessary to get the job done. In contrast, a penis that curves in a downward direction is best tackled from a kneeling position in front of him.

Once you've determined the angle from which you're going to approach it, start by sucking his cock normally, arousing him and getting him nice and hard. Once he's horny, plunge it deeper past your gag reflex to the back of your throat. If you have trouble doing this try yawning or swallowing a few times to enlarge your throat.

Relax while you're doing this. It will help open your throat up and prevent you from choking. If you do choke or gag though, take his cock out of your mouth altogether and breathe for a few minutes before trying again. Practice will help significantly with this technique. Just as things 'downtown' were tight when you lost your virginity, your throat needs to loosen up and get used to its new function.

As you go deeper, you might hear a popping noise. That's nothing to worry about; it's just the sound of his penis penetrating your throat. He's not breaking tissue or muscle mass. But it might feel strange at first.

The other difference you'll notice is that his dick will be covered in thick mucous- it'll be more consolidated and substantial than your usual saliva. This is nothing to worry about either. It's just the deeper you go, the more lined your throat gets.

When you're comfortable with deep throating, and your body has gotten used to relaxing its gag reflex, there are a few advanced techniques you can try that'll get him hotter than an exhaust pipe after a three day road trip.

1) Contract your throat muscles while he's inside you, massaging the head of his dick simultaneously.

2) While his dick is down there, swallow a few times- the sensation will make him reel.

3) Then, practice taking the head of his cock in and out of your throat- not bringing it right out of your mouth, of course, but just enough so that it's penetrating and exiting the point of no return (where your gag reflex used to kick in.) He'll go nuts!

Good work, you're on your way.

The key things to remember when deep throating your man are: that practice makes perfect- no one did this flawlessly the first, second or even third time they tried- and that relaxing makes it much more comfortable for you.

Take deep breaths, go slowly, and visualize yourself feeling calm and centred as you perform the act. Some cocks will be too big to deep throat entirely, and others will be swallow-able in one gulp. Gauge your limits, be reasonable, and don't push yourself too hard at first. You're sure to improve quickly, and your man's sure to love it!

The Top 10 Fellatio Mistakes - How to avoid them.

1. Teeth

The number one blowjob mistake: letting your teeth hit his cock. We can't stress this enough. Ask any guy and he'll tell you again and again: nothing is worse than a blowjob that is "all teeth". In fact, most guys won't admit it, but their idea of a perfect blowjob would be getting sucked off by a gorgeous woman with removable dentures. Teeth can nick and scrape the sensitive skin of the penis. Open your mouth wide enough that they stay away from his cock, or suck your lips in over them to cushion the rough edges. If he's wearing a condom during the blowjob this may provide a slight buffer, but don't count on it.

2. Going too fast

Some guys enjoy a quickie, but unless they're in a hurry to get back to work or back to their wife/girlfriend, most men like to savor the experience of getting their cock sucked. So don't rush them. It's not a race to see how fast you can get him to spurt. Take your time and make it last. Concentrate on different parts of his penis, or his balls, then go back to basic sucking and stroking. At the end of a luxuriant BJ session, he'll blow a much larger, more satisfying load.

3. Sucking too hard

Hoovering him like a dustbuster may seem like a good idea in theory, but there's a wrong way to do it. Don't fasten your mouth around the head of his cock and suck like you're trying to get a triple-thick milkshake though a straw. Guys' dickheads are the most sensitive part of the penis, and uncut guys are even more sensitive there. The proper technique to hoover is to take more of his cock into your mouth and apply moderate suction.

4. Crushing his nuts

Don't grab his balls and squeeze like you're trying to crack walnuts. This is a move you want to pull on a would-be rapist, not a guy you're trying to get off. It's painful. Many guys like to have their sack rubbed, licked, or gently tugged during a bj. You can even take a break from sucking his cock to take one or both of his balls into your mouth. But don't yank on the family jewels, and don't put them in a vise grip.

5. Barfing and gagging

Throwing up while giving a bj is definitely a turn-off, although sometimes this happens to the most well-intentioned cocksuckers. What happens is they get overenthusiastic, take the cock too deep or hard into their throat, the gag reflex gets triggered, and then it's all over. Or once the cum starts hitting the back of her throat, things start flowing the wrong way. Don't try to deep throat on your first BJ. Everyone will be sorry. Practice first on dildos to get your gag-reflex under control. Or just work up to it at your own speed.

6. Remaining immobile

Putting his cock in your mouth and then doing nothing is as bad as overdoing it. Most guys don't want to feel like they're face-fucking a cadaver. You need to work it at least a little. A total lack of effort or enthusiasm on your part is a real buzz kill. If you don't know what to do with your tongue, at least bob your head. After a while, he may want to take a more active role and have you relax while he fucks your mouth, but you need to give him a little encouragement to get him aroused.

7. Not using enough pressure

Wimpy blowjobs are no fun. Be firm and suck him like you mean it. Lapping his dick lightly will just make him feel teased. Licking his dick like it's a lollipop or popsicle may be fun to get warmed up, but then you have to get down to business. Use a firm (but not too firm) hand to work the shaft of his cock, while you get your mouth all over his knob and caress it with your tongue.

8. Spitting

Most guys want you to swallow and think that a BJ really isn't complete until his load goes down your throat. The only exception is if he gets off more on spraying it on your face, tits, or somewhere else. If you really don't want to swallow, this can be an acceptable compromise. Symbolically, swallowing shows that you accept him and his manly essence fully. Although we can't endorse unprotected bodily fluid exchange in any form, if you happen to be giving an unprotected blowjob (i.e., without a condom) and you end up with his spunk in your mouth, do not retch his cum into a wastebasket in front of him. If you really feel you must spit, do it discreetly into a towel or tissue.

9. Dry mouth

A good BJ involves a lot of saliva. Don't be afraid to get a little sloppy and drool on his cock. If your mouth is dry from nervousness or whatever, there will be too much friction and stickiness to give good head. If your mouth is dry, drink some water and rinse. Try to work up a good mouthful of spit before you go down. Suck on a hard candy to get your juice flowing, or suck on an Altoid to give him a mentholated BJ.

10. Stranglehold

Don't put his cock in a deathgrip. It's fine to wrap a hand around the shaft, but don't clench and for god's sake, watch the nails. Just hold it enough to keep it from flopping around and shuck his pole with your hand while you work him with your mouth. His dick shouldn't have a handprint on in when you're done.

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