How to Give a Man a Hand Job


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"These tips will provide you with the fundamentals necessary to give your man a hand job"

Keeping your love life steamy involves variety, creativity, and thinking outside the box. Letís face it, practicing fifteen minutes of missionary position Fridays and Saturdays after the evening news just doesnít cut it.

To keep things interesting, think of sex as a term encompassing more than just penetration. Think blow jobs, caressing, teasing, necking, holding, and certainly masturbating together or giving your man the Ďperfectí hand job.

Hereís the catch. While guys love hand jobs, most report that their women donít really know what theyíre doing. They grasp the dick too softly, pull at the wrong time, and donít commit to the experience with the passion and enthusiasm they do other titillating things.

To prevent you from having this experience, Iíve outlined some suggestions for techniques you can use to guarantee your man comes crying for more. These tips will provide you with the fundamentals necessary to hit a home run every time.

Number One: Get to know his penis. This is the KEY to everything. Before you even bother doing anything else, if you havenít done this, youíre going to suck, and not in the good way. So, is it big or small, curved or straight, long or short' Can you fit one hand around its girth, or is he a two-hander'

While size is not directly correlated to pleasure (the bigger is not necessarily the better- everyoneís different), you do have to explore down there so you know what youíre dealing with. Getting a good sense of the territory, youíll navigate more effectively, and derive much greater pleasure on your way.

Men love you to love their cock; they have no problem with you staying down there all day in fact. So take the opportunity to study up on this important Ďmemberí of your sexual team. Itíll be the best research project youíve ever done!

Once youíve got an intimate understanding of his package, start slow and let him savour everything youíre doing. When giving him a hand job, you donít want to immediately go into the typical rapid stroking motion you think he wants. While that is certainly a favourite, itís a much better idea to get him warmed up first, and tease him with the anticipation. Start by running your fingers over his balls and up the front of his shaft.

You can run your fingertips over the head of his cock and then let them wander back down to home base. When doing this, make sure your movement is smooth and quick. Abstain from any sudden jerks though or other bumps along the way if at all possible.

Next, head into second gear. Zone in on the slightly more sensitive areas, lightly touching the glans and corona, and the underside of his dick- the parts with all those lovely nerve endings. Place your palm on his glans and then close your fingers over it, spinning it around like youíre opening a peanut butter container.

If you do this correctly, he should start to squirm with delight. This area yields a strange but wonderful sensation, so donít be surprised if he tries to pull your hand away. But unless he says youíre hurting him, donít let him push you off him yet. More than likely, heís actually loving it.

Following this, take some time out for the boys. While a manís testicles are very sensitive, they are a deliciously large source of pleasure as well. Grab them LIGHTLY in your fingers and softly give them a little pull downwards. You can hold and very gently massage them for a few seconds too- if theyíre big, tell him that.

Heíll love it. Next, try picking them up SOFTLY and roll them up the underside of his shaft. This creates a sensation heíll go berserk over. Whatever you do, whenever handling a manís Ďberriesí be sure you are using great caution- a wrong turn (scratching, squeezing or applying too much pressure) could end the love making session faster than Paris Hilton says, "thatís hot!"

Now you can slowly go into a stroking motion. Start gently at first, running your fingers all over his balls and shaft. If you want to, let them run all the way up to the top of his cock and pause there a few seconds before heading back down again.

As he gets increasingly turned on, his cock will begin to disseminate a natural lubricant. This is nothing to worry about- it's just the body's way of moistening the canal to make it easier for his sperm to swim across to your eggs. (Thank GOD for birth control!) This liquid's secondary function is to lubricate the head of the penis (just as your vagina self lubricates) to make it easier for penetration, and in this case to facilitate your hand job. On an uncircumcised man, this fluid gathers inside the foreskin keeping the head of his dick very moist.

The smell of it alone can serve as an aphrodisiac for you much like your scent does for him! If for some reason this fluid doesn't come out in time, though, don't worry. Just grab a little hand lotion or body cream and rub it together on your hands (to warm it up.) This will serve as a perfectly good lubricant as well, and make it easier for your fingers to explore every curve and contour of his goods.

One tip you should note: if your partner does not easily get an erection, or just if for some reason on any particular day, it's not happening, try cinnamon. Cinnamon scented body lotion yields a mild burning sensation that gets a penis telephone-pole-hard in no time. Use it as a lubricant and throw a little on his testicles as well, and the half-mast flag will be proudly sailing in the wind almost immediately.

The key to a good sex life is variety, and hand jobs are certainly no exception. Read on for some great technique suggestions to try.

Climbing the Fire Pole

Stroking him with one hand then the other, keeping a consistent rhythm and pressure, can be very exciting for him. He'll notice the switch; and he'll be hotter than a house fire in Alabama.

The Driver

Two heads are better than one, and when it comes to this head, two hands are a dream. Try placing one hand on top of the other like you're holding a golf club and move them up and down in synchronization. Or, if his cock isn't big enough for that, use one to stroke and the other to play with and massage his balls. He'll be eating out of your hand half way through the game and you'll be sure to score on this drive up the green.

The Hairdresser

With one hand, start at the head of his penis and stroke down to the base. Release there. Just as you let go with one hand, though, your other hand should be starting the same motion. Create a rhythm whereby one hand is beginning and the other ending simultaneously. Just like the hairdresser teases your locks, give your man's shaft a little teasing and you're likely to get a reaction!

The Hot Potato

Take the cock with both hands, palms on either side of the shaft. Imagine having a jam jar in front of you and holding it on both sides with the label facing out to show your friends. Got it' Now toss it back and forth between your hands holding onto nothing but the loose skin of the shaft. While this may seem a bit strange at first, he'll love it as things continue. An orgasm reached during this move is usually as explosive as that hot potato left too long in the microwave.

The Oreo

Take both hands and place them on either side of his shaft like two sides of an Oreo meeting the filling. Then rub it up and down, up and down until you hear him moan. This friction you create will get him so riled up, some of that filling might come oozing out the sides.

The Spark

Place both hands on his cock with your fingers outstretched. Now rub it sideways back and forth like you would to start a fire on Survivor Island. Much like the space craft, this friction feels fabulous and will create a spark in his eye and his groin simultaneously.

One Ring Circus

Using your thumb and forefinger as a cock ring at the base of his shaft, tighten it just enough so that the blood flow is cut off, and use your free hand to pull his monkey. You'll have him swinging from a trapeze in no time.

The Short and Curly

While you are stroking your man's cock, try lightly (very lightly!) pulling at the pubic hairs on his balls. This little added inventiveness will score you points for sure.

The Tickler

As you are jerking him off, try tickling his balls with your free hand.

The Thigh-Master

Make use of your free hand this time by patting his inner thighs.

The Fist

While you are jerking him off, take your free hand, make a fist, and press it firmly (but not too hard) against his perineum. This gets him thinking on a different level and will cause surprisingly incredible arousal.

The Firecracker

Take both hands, and one after the other starting at the base of his shaft, stroke up his penis and release.

The Pussy Trap

This one involves basically the same concept as the hairdresser, but instead of just starting at the tip of his cock, make a fist and let the cock penetrate your hand. This will give his body the illusion it's penetrating a vagina, over and over and over.

The Bowler

Take the palm of your hand and roll it around the head of his dick like you would stroke a bowling ball. This will draw the blood up to this region and cause the head of his dick to enlarge, which feels great.

Tiny Circles

This is very similar to the bowler, only this time, stop on each side of the head of his dick and make tiny circles. But note that this will increase his sensitivity level, so only do two or three before you move on.

The Magic Ring

Create that cock ring again with your forefinger and thumb. Jerk him off like this, but when you get to the top, close your fist over the head and then pause there, letting him push his way through the ring again.

The Fawcet

Grasp the head of his dick in your hand and turn it like you would a fawcet. Try turning it both ways- but not too hard, you don't want to turn it off!

The Explosion

Pay attention only to his shaft for a while. But make sure you don't get all the way up to the head. This will get the blood flowing hard and eventually, when you do go for the top, things might explode.

The Quick Pinch

Take your fingers and run them all over the underside of his cock. Ask him, as you're doing this, where the most sensitive spot is. When you find it, lick it, tease it, pinch it a little, and if you thought his cock was already hard, you'll find out just how much harder it can get!

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