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Foreplay: Sex Tips for Women and Men


Author: SexTails
Published: 06-Feb-16 Revised/Updated 09-Sep-17

Tips that will increase the pleasure of foreplay and make sex far more enjoyable, for both you and your partner.

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Don't Forget to Kiss

90% of women in a recent poll said they liked to kiss more, so make sure that you kiss your partner and do it with passion.

The basics of kissing your partner are explained fully in our other articles, but the trick is to relax, use variety follow your partner, use your body and do it with passion.

Kissing is one of the best ways to show love and desire and is deeply personal, so make sure you do it correctly.

Target the Neck

If you want to target one erogenous zone to make your partner moan with ecstasy, it's the neck. It's guaranteed to make any women melt and feel hot and sexy. Make sure you lick, kiss and nibble it.

Target ALL the Erogenous Zones

We all know the obvious erogenous zones, but make sure you target them all. Great erogenous zones include:

Oral Sex

There is not enough room here to cover all the ways to turn your women on with oral sex - but one thing is a must, communication - Many women complain that their partners do not do oral sex correctly. So communication is a must, ask her exactly how she likes it and follow her lead.

Many women become very self conscious and think their partners are simply doing it to please them. Show them you are enjoying it and they will relax and enjoy the experience even more.

Use Massage

Many women need to be relaxed to enjoy sex and get ready for full intercourse so add some sensuous oils into foreplay and pay attention to the back shoulders and the feet.

Set the Mood

Relax before hand and show you have made an effort.

Take her to dinner or make sure you have champagne on ice show your partner you care love and desire them.

For women sex is not purely a physical act, it's a mental experience so show your partner how much you care.


Foreplay should be fun and not finish too soon.

Practice bringing your partners desire up and then moving away from the area targeted, tease her until she can take no more. This will heighten the expectation and make full sex much more fulfilling when it comes.


You need to explore your partner's inner desires and try and please them.

Many couples are reluctant to talk about sex but your both adults and you need to do so.

Don't rely on trial and error, make sure you talk frankly and openly.

Try Something New

Don't go through the same routine every time!

Sex will get boring add some different aspects and experiment. This may mean introducing toys, food or whatever else you can think of.

Nothing kills a relationship more than predictability and boredom.

After Sex Don't Just Walk Out

Take time to tell your partner how much you enjoyed the experience.

Kiss cuddle and tell her how wonderful it was - Make your partner feel wanted!

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